Friday, January 25, 2008

What would you do?

What would you do if you were to chance upon an ie window of a forum with the thread "Will committing adultery land you in jail", and it happens to be ur other half's computer?

Do you start to think why in the gawd damn first place would your other half be reading this kind of thread? What would be ur initial thots?

Do you..
a) think he might be having the intentions of committing it?
b) think he probably had committed it?
c) think he wants to know how the country handles such cases?
d) the worst of all, ALL OF THE ABOVE. Has the intentions of committing, went straight to commit it and now wants to know what ever will happen if the secret is out of the box.

If your other half also happens to be showing the following symptoms, it only makes matters worse.
  • Doesn't wear the wedding ring anymore
  • No longer buys the birthday cake nor presents nor celebrates your birthday
  • Doesn't seem to be willing to spend anymore $$$ on you
  • Irritates to any physical contact between the two of you
  • Stares at the computer screen more than spending time with you *which probably shows that he/she has lost interest*
  • Treats others better than he/she treats you
  • You feel only like a housekeeper aka maid
  • Has only complaints with grumbles but never any compliment about you *which probably also shows that he/she has lost interest*
  • Speaks less than 15 sentences to you a day *already inclusive of phone conversation*
  • Makes you feel that he/she doesn't love you anymore *a normal healthy relationship will not create negative feelings*

What would you do? *if you're so suay that all of the above are true*

Do you...

a) have a good heart to heart talk with each other and find out what is the ultimate problem?

b) ask straight if he/she has got third party involve?

c) take the legal step to prevent yourself being hurt?

d) All of the above..step-by-step.

What is the meaning of adultery?

a·dul·ter·y
voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and someone other than his or her lawful spouse.
Classified as single adultery (with an unmarried person) and double adultery (with a married person).

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